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Retirement getting less scary for gay boomers

(CNN) — The generation of gays and lesbians that literally created the modern LGBT movement — from the heroes of the 1969 Stonewall riots to their slightly younger friends — is at, or nearing, retirement age.

That used to mean the beginning of an extremely difficult time in an LGBT person’s life. But as gay baby boomers find more acceptance in mainstream society and continue to do what they’ve always done — push to make a better world for the LGBT community — their retirement options are slowly improving. That is, if they decide to retire at all.

“The notion of retirement has never been a part of my vocabulary,” said Bob Witeck, CEO and co-founder of Witeck Communications.

Nearly 61, Witeck has put some thought into what he should do with his strategic public relations and marketing firm as he gets older. Like many friends his age who are also entrepreneurs, he plans to keep working.

“Because I run a business, as I get older I can change the intensity of my engagement in the kinds of work I take on,” Witeck said. “I know I’m lucky that way, and I’m lucky in my personal life as well. My husband is 50, so I have a younger man to help me if I need it,” he said, laughing.

For decades, according to published studies and reports, many LGBT seniors entered into a kind of dangerous isolation, because the majority did not have children or spouses to help care for them. Even if they did have the benefit of a partner to help as their health declined, they faced extra burdens their straight counterparts did not have.

Without federal marriage equality, gay couples — no matter how long they’ve been together — cannot inherit each other’s Social Security benefits, even if they were legally married in the handful of states that allow it.

They can be designated as the beneficiaries of each other’s retirement savings, but must pay inheritance taxes that straight widows and widowers do not. In order to make health care decisions on behalf of an incapacitated partner, gay couples must pay additional legal fees to be granted medical power of attorney.

Historically, nothing could stop a hospital or nursing home from forbidding a gay person from visiting their partner, and openly gay people often faced discrimination from health care providers, according to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force report, “Outing Age 2010.”

Consequently, many LGBT seniors ended up going back into the closet as their declining health and mobility left them dependent on strangers for help, according to a study conducted by the National Senior Citizens Law Center, Lambda Legal and others. Or they were slow to ask for help — even if they badly needed it.

“When you put that together — the absence of adult children and a partner to help, and add barriers to accessing services, and limit the financial means others have — then this very thin network of support breaks at exactly the wrong time, right when there is an increasing need for services,” said Michael Adams, executive director of the group Services & Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders, known as SAGE.

Witeck said his retirement plans and those of his friends are nothing like those of their fathers’ generation.

“My father was of the generation that thought you put in your time and then you just take off the rest, and many could afford to do it,” Witeck said. “He had absolutely no plans and had a generous pension.”

His father worked on Capitol Hill for a couple of decades, Witeck said, and was able to retire at 60. He lived another 27 years.

“Over time he did get a little discouraged because he felt like he didn’t have a purpose, but that’s what the people he knew did,” Witeck said. “They just abruptly stopped working. I can tell you, that won’t be me.”

 

He has, however, seen some friends whose plans to continue working have been derailed by health problems.

“I do know, as we age, our health can fail, and I’ve seen it with some friends who aren’t as sharp as they once were. So I know it’s a roll of the dice on how long we can keep working,” he said. “Hopefully I can stay healthy and won’t need the help.”

But often retirement-age people do need help, and that has not always been easy for the LGBT community.

“There is no question we are making a lot of progress in this area, and we’ve absolutely been helped along by the emergence of boomers into retirement years, but by the very nature of the enormity of this work, true change will take years,” Adams said.

His organization, SAGE, has been working to change the situation for older LGBT people since 1978. Much has changed for the community since then, he said.

“Especially since the Obama administration took office,” Adams said. “The federal approach to aging issues has improved.”

While there still isn’t federal recognition of marriage for gay couples, the federal Pension Protection Act of 2006 allowed a rollover option to nonspousal beneficiaries. That meant people could leave their pensions to anyone without a tax penalty. In the past, only married spouses were eligible for that benefit.

(CNN) — The generation of gays and lesbians that literally created the modern LGBT movement — from the heroes of the 1969 Stonewall riots to their slightly younger friends — is at, or nearing, retirement age.

That used to mean the beginning of an extremely difficult time in an LGBT person’s life. But as gay baby boomers find more acceptance in mainstream society and continue to do what they’ve always done — push to make a better world for the LGBT community — their retirement options are slowly improving. That is, if they decide to retire at all.

“The notion of retirement has never been a part of my vocabulary,” said Bob Witeck, CEO and co-founder of Witeck Communications.

Nearly 61, Witeck has put some thought into what he should do with his strategic public relations and marketing firm as he gets older. Like many friends his age who are also entrepreneurs, he plans to keep working.

“Because I run a business, as I get older I can change the intensity of my engagement in the kinds of work I take on,” Witeck said. “I know I’m lucky that way, and I’m lucky in my personal life as well. My husband is 50, so I have a younger man to help me if I need it,” he said, laughing.

For decades, according to published studies and reports, many LGBT seniors entered into a kind of dangerous isolation, because the majority did not have children or spouses to help care for them. Even if they did have the benefit of a partner to help as their health declined, they faced extra burdens their straight counterparts did not have.

Without federal marriage equality, gay couples — no matter how long they’ve been together — cannot inherit each other’s Social Security benefits, even if they were legally married in the handful of states that allow it.

They can be designated as the beneficiaries of each other’s retirement savings, but must pay inheritance taxes that straight widows and widowers do not. In order to make health care decisions on behalf of an incapacitated partner, gay couples must pay additional legal fees to be granted medical power of attorney.

Historically, nothing could stop a hospital or nursing home from forbidding a gay person from visiting their partner, and openly gay people often faced discrimination from health care providers, according to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force report, “Outing Age 2010.”

Consequently, many LGBT seniors ended up going back into the closet as their declining health and mobility left them dependent on strangers for help, according to a study conducted by the National Senior Citizens Law Center, Lambda Legal and others. Or they were slow to ask for help — even if they badly needed it.

“When you put that together — the absence of adult children and a partner to help, and add barriers to accessing services, and limit the financial means others have — then this very thin network of support breaks at exactly the wrong time, right when there is an increasing need for services,” said Michael Adams, executive director of the group Services & Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders, known as SAGE.

Witeck said his retirement plans and those of his friends are nothing like those of their fathers’ generation.

“My father was of the generation that thought you put in your time and then you just take off the rest, and many could afford to do it,” Witeck said. “He had absolutely no plans and had a generous pension.”

His father worked on Capitol Hill for a couple of decades, Witeck said, and was able to retire at 60. He lived another 27 years.

“Over time he did get a little discouraged because he felt like he didn’t have a purpose, but that’s what the people he knew did,” Witeck said. “They just abruptly stopped working. I can tell you, that won’t be me.”

 

He has, however, seen some friends whose plans to continue working have been derailed by health problems.

“I do know, as we age, our health can fail, and I’ve seen it with some friends who aren’t as sharp as they once were. So I know it’s a roll of the dice on how long we can keep working,” he said. “Hopefully I can stay healthy and won’t need the help.”

But often retirement-age people do need help, and that has not always been easy for the LGBT community.

“There is no question we are making a lot of progress in this area, and we’ve absolutely been helped along by the emergence of boomers into retirement years, but by the very nature of the enormity of this work, true change will take years,” Adams said.

His organization, SAGE, has been working to change the situation for older LGBT people since 1978. Much has changed for the community since then, he said.

“Especially since the Obama administration took office,” Adams said. “The federal approach to aging issues has improved.”

While there still isn’t federal recognition of marriage for gay couples, the federal Pension Protection Act of 2006 allowed a rollover option to nonspousal beneficiaries. That meant people could leave their pensions to anyone without a tax penalty. In the past, only married spouses were eligible for that benefit.

 

 



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1 Comment for “Retirement getting less scary for gay boomers”

  1. Good article. Always important to have a group of friends around you. Especially when you’re older. Check out our senior gay community in Florida. Search Lambda Clearwater on your browser.

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